One reason could be that your command station is shutting down, because of the perceived short, before the AR1 is switching. I had this problem. I would get it to work with, say an Atlas loco, then a Broadway Ltd with sound would short. I would adjust it for that, then it wouldn't trip for the Atlas.
I gave up and bought Tam Valley Hex Juicers, which are electronis rather than using a relay, and have had no trouble since.
Cheers, Bob.