Cory,
If you're using a wood kit, this is an easy kill. Use isopropyl alcohol with a few drops of India ink in it. That stain will give you exactly the color you're after. Just go easy on the ink. A few drops is all you need. Just stain it before you assemble it because otherwise, glue spots won't absorb the stain.
Oh, and once you apply the stain, your parts will warp all to hell. So put them under a sheet of glass and weight it for 48 hours.
Sounds like a pain in the a$$ but I promise it'll be worth it.