Ed, You need coupler levers!!
Other Ed, I just bought some Kadee "Prototype" couplers, they're not nearly as good as the Protocraft couplers. There's a lot of slack between the knuckles when they're coupled that isn't there on the Protocraft ones. Protocraft is more than twice the cost. $12/pair vs. $5/pair, but if you've only got a few cars its worth considering.