... I'd be curious what tools you use to work with this tubing (especially to make an MT-compatible cutout like you suggest). It seems like a mini-chop saw and drill press would be invaluable for bulk production.
The FT couplers were designed with auto-uncoupling in mind but, as I understand it, the knuckle spring was too stiff to allow this to work properly, so the trip pins were clipped off for this run of couplers (but there is a trip pin in there, which is used to secure and pivot the knuckle).
I haven't tried it yet, but a small milling bit in a Dremel should do it. MTL simply cuts out that square quadrant. I copied the MTL design for the G26 coupler pocket, but on the XIH boxcar I simply used a larger diameter quarter-circle and it works fine. You just need clearance for the pin and it doesn't have to be perfectly shaped, as long as it stops at 180 and 270 degrees.
I love your modified design of the brass coupler pocket. I still have a number of cushioned underframe cars to modify, and your version is easier and better than mine. Plus, you don't have a visible screw head on the bottom face.
By the way, regarding the FT coupler, I would contact the manufacturer and see if they will sell you the coupler parts in bulk. The worst that can happen is that they say no, which leaves you no worse off than you are now. I have a feeling that if you explain how you're using the parts, they will be receptive.